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Many choose _not_ to say what is bothering them, through a fear of conflict or a concern about upsetting their partner. However, pushing your feelings under the carpet means they begin to fester and resentment starts to build with problems becoming much worse longer term. Taking responsibility for how you express your feelings, rather than attributing blame, paves the way for effective [communication and happier relationships](https://onlinecouplescounselling.com/blog/blog-communication-in-relationships). ### Take it in turns to listen Half a conversation is listening…which means _really_ listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk again. Let your partner speak and take on board what they say. This will encourage the same in return, resulting in constructive, respectful communication. ### You said what?! The way we say things can dramatically affect how they are received. Be conscious of this, particularly during a disagreement. 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