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How Infidelity Counselling Works
We provide Counselling For Cheating via Zoom and have availability as soon as tomorrow.
If you have recently discovered your partner has been having an affair you will know the pain it causes. It's not only shock of the betrayal you will be trying to process it’s also the loss of trust in your spouse and your relationship.
Learning that a partner you believed to be faithful, was in fact cheating, can feel overwhelming. People regulary report to feeling confused, shocked, hurt and angry. Unable to fully assimilate and accept what has happened. Unsurprisingly, the person who has been cheated upon might struggle with the simplest of decisions regarding their relationship or day to day tasks
Understanding why an affair happened
Affairs rarely have just one cause and they don't always happen because of unhappiness or dissatisfaction in a relationship. It's vital that you both understand the real reasons why it happened
Affairs, infidelity or cheating usually (but not always) arise in a relationship that already has underlying problems which have not been addressed. This can be hard to accept, especially for the person who feels betrayed. Although this may be true, the betrayed spouse is never to blame for thier partner having an affair
Many couples seek online counselling following an affair or infidelity. This is because people feel they desperately need help in coming to terms with what they have found out. Sometimes the person who suffered the deceit finds it difficult to move on, and many years down the line it still eats away at the relationship
How counselling for cheating can help
Our couple counsellors will help you explore what had been going leading up to the affair. It is vital that you (both) understand the real reasons why it happened. This can be very painful. But it helps to know what went wrong, so you can both work towards changing things in the future
Relationship Counselling can help the person who looked outside the relationship understand what they were seeking elsewhere
Only you can decide what to do after an affair and whatever you decide it might not be easy. Affairs tend to wreak havoc in a relationship but they can also provide the opportunity for positive change too
An affair can also have destructive effects on your family, children and friends. Even so, an affair does not always mean the end of your relationship. With hard work, commitment and patience, it may be possible to come through this crisis and sometimes it can make a relationship stronger
If you would like some professional counselling for cheating. Please book an appointment with is today
My partner and I had been struggling to communicate effectively for months, and it was starting to take a toll on our relationship. We decided to seek the help of a professional, and we were fortunate enough to have been allocated Sian Jones as our therapist and she also owns Online Couples Counselling.
From the very first session, Sian made us feel comfortable and at ease. She has an incredible ability to listen without judgment and to ask insightful questions that helped us understand our own feelings and those of our partner. She also gave us practical tools and exercises to help us improve our communication and work through conflicts in a healthy way.
We appreciated Sian’s compassionate and non-judgmental approach, as well as her expertise in relationship dynamics. She helped us see our patterns and gave us the tools to break them and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Thanks to Sian’s guidance, we were able to rebuild our communication and create a deeper sense of trust and intimacy. We highly recommend Sian Jones to anyone seeking help with their relationship.
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Kaye Barney
I have recently been helped by Kaye Barney and through my sessions I can honestly say I have felt improvement. She helped create a open and friendly platform in which we could discuss the relevant topics that helped ease my overall stress and anxiety. I would recommend Kaye very highly and I would not hesitate to book further sessions if I felt the need. I would also recommend the online sessions and found them far less stressful that adding extra travel to my day.
Nik Edwards
Kay Doherty
We both found the counselling with Kay Doherty really helpful in getting us to really talk and really listen I’d happily use it again.
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Madeleine Kingsley
I initially went to meet with Madeleine for marriage guidance therapy. Madeleine was understanding, supportive and empathetic to our needs. She was a rock through the most difficult times in my life; always available with sage advice and guidance even when it wasn’t easy to hear. Her quick wit makes her easy to open up to, effortlessly building relationships.
Since finishing my regular sessions we keep in touch and I have recommended her to friends, family and even clients.
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Kay Doherty
If you are looking for a great counsellor then Kay is the person you need to see. Without her me and my partner would not have been able to make the steps we have. Her support and guidance is greatly appreciated and we thank her for everything.
Many thanks
Lucy and Tom
Kay Doherty
We had never used counselling of any kind in the past so we found the whole process of finding someone we can speak with quite challenging. We ideally wanted to meet with someone face to face but soon realised that everyone was busy, so searched for an on-line appointment.
Ours was a private relationship matter, we had no one to talk to but each other so when we met Kay we were hoping for a good listener, independent advice, someone with experience who appreciated what we were going through.
Kay was exactly what we needed, she listened to both of us, sometimes each in turn and sometimes to both of us together as we opened up about our individual journeys. She is very experienced, so settled our nerves that what we were experiencing was normal each of us at different stages and with different issues to resolve.
After weekly on-line calls over a period of three months, Kay helped us get to the bottom of our issues and guided us to think about what we were doing, improve communication and better listening. We took on board the feedback and gradually we started working together on the same side as opposed to working against each other.
We would highly recommend Kay as a Couples Therapist and if we do falter, we would instantly go back to Kay for more help.
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Denese MacDonald
Dear Denese, we really have learned a lot about our relationship through our sessions with you . After 40 years we were happy but taking each other for granted . The bigger issues were not a problem , but the smaller irritations were magnifying for a very long time .
You helped us understand that small changes can make a very big difference , and to simply let things go ! Your counselling is insightful , calm and patient Talking things through with you as an impartial counsellor who did not criticise us has been very beneficial .
